Divorcing Women with Their Consent

 

The believers' fear and respect of Allah, as well as their belief,
cause them to obey their conscience and the Qur'an's values at every
moment. But for unbelievers, their base instincts and Satan are
their guiding influences. Thus, they seek to satisfy their self-interest
and their ego instead of acting fairly and nicely. This scenario
is often seen when relationships end, such as a marriage based upon
financial self-interest.

For these people, divorce means the end of all bonds based on mutual
interest, for when these interests no longer exist, there is no
longer any reason for them to value or respect the other party.
As a result, they see no reason to do anything good for that person,
and so move to protect their own interests regardless of the other
person's situation.

Believers display a totally different type of behavior in such
circumstances, for their only goal in life is to win Allah's good
pleasure. Fully aware that following the whims of their self-interest
or ego displeases Him, they adhere to the Qur'an's morality and
their conscience. Therefore, even in the case of divorce, they treat
each other well and with justice.

Allah commands men to divorce their wives in the best possible
way: "When you divorce women and they are
near the end of their waiting period, then either retain them with
correctness and courtesy or release them with correctness and courtesy"
(Surat al-Baqara: 231). Pursuing only Allah's good pleasure,
they treat their ex-wives with tolerance, compassion, politeness,
respect, and thoughtfulness, thereby continuing their former loving
and respectful manner toward each other. Allah reveals the male
believers' correct behavior in such circumstances:

O you who believe! When you marry believing women
and then divorce them before you have touched them, there is no
waiting period for you to calculate for them, so give them a gift
and let them go with kindness. (Surat al-Ahzab: 49)

Guaranteeing Divorced Women's
Financial Security

Allah reveals that a sincere Muslim man must guarantee his ex-wife's
financial security in order to safeguard her continued financial
well-being:

Divorced women should receive maintenance given
with correctness and courtesy: a duty for all who guard against
evil. (Surat al-Baqara: 241)

When determining this amount, a Muslim man must act conscientiously
and consider his ex-wife's social standing and needs. The Qur'an
states that:

... Provide for them-He who is wealthy according
to his means, and he who is less well off according to his means-a
provision to be given with correctness and courtesy: a duty for
all good-doers. (Surat al-Baqara: 236)

He who has plenty should spend out of his plenty
(to those women he divorces), but he whose provision is restricted
should spend from what Allah has given him. Allah does not demand
from anyone more than He has given it. Allah will appoint, after
difficulty, ease. (Surat at-Talaq: 7)

In other words, Allah holds everyone, without exception, responsible
according to their financial means and requires them to pay a suitable
maintenance. Some unbelievers consider it a waste of money to pay
alimony to their ex-wives, because they neither believe in the Hereafter
nor seek Allah's good pleasure. Since they only wish to safeguard
their self-interest, they consider pointless to act selflessly toward
someone from whom they are estranged and thus can expect no benefit.
For this reason, they seek to avoid this responsibility, at least
partially or completely. On the other hand, male believers, as mentioned
above, continue to treat their ex-wives well and do what they can
to meet their financial needs.

Believers understand that it is not necessarily what they do, but
rather what their true intention is, that will win them His good
pleasure. This truth is explained in the following words: "Their
flesh and blood does not reach Allah, but your heedfulness does
reach Him" (Surat al-Hajj: 37). For this reason, a believing
man willingly fulfills his responsibilities toward his ex-wife in
this respect. However, if she does not wish to receive her due and
if she wishes to forego this right, her former husband cannot be
held responsible: "Give women their dowry
as an outright gift. But if they are happy to give you some of it,
make use of it with pleasure and goodwill" (Surat an-Nisa':
4).

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