Smiling at a kaafir with the aim of softening his heart and calling him to Islam

Smiling at a kaafir with the aim of softening his heart and calling him to Islam

In view of the ahaadeeth of the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) about dealing with the kuffaar, not initiating the greeting with them, and not making room for them on the street, as in the hadeeth “Push them to the narrowest part of (the road)”, can we deduce by analogy with that that it is not permissible to smile at them? In other words, is it permissible to smile at the kuffaar? If it is not permissible, then how can we respond to those who said that it comes under the heading of calling them to Allaah and inviting them to Islam?.

 

Praise be to Allaah.

There are abundant Islamic texts which indicate that it is
haraam to befriend and love the kuffaar or take them as close friends, and
honour them and show friendship to them, or be the first to greet them. But
exceptions are made in some cases when that is for a purpose or need, such
as greeting them with words other than salaam when necessary, or treating
them kindly when calling them to Islam. That includes smiling at them. 

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) was
asked: What is the ruling on mixing with the kuffaar and treating them
kindly in the hope that they will become Muslim? 

He replied: Undoubtedly the Muslim should hate the enemies of
Allaah and disavow them, because this is the way of the Messengers and their
followers. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 

“Indeed there has been an excellent example for you in
Ibraaheem (Abraham) and those with him, when they said to their people:
Verily, we are free from you and whatever you worship besides Allaah, we
have rejected you, and there has started between us and you, hostility and
hatred for ever until you believe in Allaah Alone”

[al-Mumtahanah 60:4] 

“You (O Muhammad) will not find any people who believe in
Allaah and the Last Day, making friendship with those who oppose Allaah and
His Messenger (Muhammad), even though they were their fathers or their sons
or their brothers or their kindred (people). For such He has written Faith
in their hearts, and strengthened them with Rooh (proofs, light and true
guidance) from Himself”

[al-Mujaadilah 58:22] 

Based on this, it is not permissible for the Muslim to feel
any love in his heart towards the enemies of Allaah who are in fact his
enemies too. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 

“O you who believe! Take not My enemies and your enemies
(i.e. disbelievers and polytheists) as friends, showing affection towards
them, while they have disbelieved in what has come to you of the truth”

[al-Mumtahanah 60:1] 

But there is nothing wrong with a Muslim treating them kindly
in the hope that they will become Muslims and believers, because that comes
under the heading of softening their hearts towards Islam. But if he
despairs of them becoming Muslim, then he should treat them as they deserve
to be treated. This is discussed in detail in the books of the scholars,
especially Ahkaam Ahl al-Dhimmah by Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah
have mercy on him). End quote from Majmoo’ Fataawa Ibn ‘Uthaymeen
(may Allaah have mercy on him) (3/13). 

Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Zaad
al-Ma’aad (2/424), concerning greeting the kuffaar first: A group (of
scholars) said it is permissible to greet them first if that is for a
purpose, such as a need or a fear of harm, or because they are relatives, or
for any other reason. End quote. 

It says in al-Mawsoo’ah al-Fiqhiyyah (25/168): The
Hanafis are of the view that it is makrooh to greet ahl al-dhimmah with
salaam, because that implies respecting them, but there is nothing wrong
with greeting a dhimmi if one needs something from him, because in that case
the salaam is because of the need, not in order to show respect. And it is
permissible to say, “Peace be upon those who follow true guidance.”
According to the Shaafa’is it is haraam to initiate the greeting of salaam
with a dhimmi, but one may greet him in some other way, such as saying “May
Allaah guide you” or “may Allaah bless your morning,” if he needs something
from him. Otherwise he should not be the first to show any kind of respect
to him, because that is an expression of friendship and love. Allaah says
(interpretation of the meaning): “You (O Muhammad) will not find any
people who believe in Allaah and the Last Day, making friendship with those
who oppose Allaah and His Messenger (Muhammad).”.

End quote. 

Conclusion: it is permissible to be kind to a kaafir and
smile at him, with the aim of calling him to Islam. 

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