His family impugn the honour of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and insult his companions

His family impugn the honour of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and insult his companions

Allaah, His Messenger and the Muslim ummah enjoin upholding ties of kinship, but by Allaah we do not feel this nowadays, because of the bad attitude of the people with whom we live, and because of their bad understanding and their negligence towards Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted. 


My family offend me and they swear and insult my mother if I am present. 


If I am sitting in their house, my family impugn the honour of the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and insult his companions. 


Is there any sin on me if I cut off ties with them? 


I ask Allaah to keep us safe and to help you in what you do.

 

Praise be to Allaah.

Firstly: 

One should not sit with people such as these who are in the
habit of insulting mothers, unless he has no other choice. He has to express
his hatred of their actions and attitude, and to do his best to call them to
Islam and advise them, so that they will give up these evil actions. 

If these people are relatives, it is better to strive to
uphold ties with them and call them to Allaah, may He be exalted, and to do
his utmost in that. If Allaah guides one man at your hands, that is better
than red camels (the best kind), and he should not forsake them for his own
sake. 

Secondly: 

Anything may be tolerated, except insults to our beloved
Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and slander
against his companions and the bearers of his religion. This implies insults
against the Lord of the Worlds, may He be glorified, the One Who praised His
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and chose him, and
Who praised his companions and chose them and honoured them with the company
of His Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). 

Impugning the honour of the Prophet (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him) by slandering his wives or one of them, is an insult
against him (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), because he
chose her, kept her and was her companion until he departed this world. And
it is an insult against Allaah Who chose her for His Prophet and approved of
her as his wife and did not tell him to leave her. 

Such insults can only come from one whose eyes Allaah has
blinded to guidance and the true religion, such as the Raafidis and their
ilk among the people of misguidance, or those who are influenced by them and
have followed their misguidance. We ask Allaah to keep us safe and sound. 

Hence you have to denounce this grave evil, and explain to
your family that this is apostasy from Islam, and it is following the path
of misguided sinners. You should warn them of bad consequences in this
world, let alone the Hereafter. 

If they respond, then praise be to Allaah. If they persist
then do all you can to convince them, such as inviting one of the scholars
to advise them, even if that is done indirectly, or bringing some books and
tapes about this topic. If that does not work with them, then you can cut
off ties with them or keep away from them. Do that out of a sense of
protective jealousy towards your Beloved (peace and blessings of Allaah
be upon him). At the very least you can voice your objections every time
they do that, and leave the gathering in that case. 

Al-Baghawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said, commenting on
the hadeeth about Ka’b ibn Maalik and his companions: 

This indicates that the people of bid’ah may be shunned
indefinitely. … The Sahaabah, Taabi’een and their followers acted in
accordance with that, and the Sunni scholars are unanimously agreed that
people of bid’ah are to be shunned. End quote from Sharh al-Sunnah
(1/227). 

Ibn Muflih (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Ahmad said:
It is obligatory to shun the one who becomes a kaafir or who commits evil by
following bid’ah, or who promotes misguided innovation; this is required of
those who are not able to refute it or to speak up against it, or is afraid
of being influenced by this. And it was said that he must be shunned
altogether, as is the apparent meaning of the words of Imam Ahmad quoted
above. Ibn ‘Aqeel stated definitely that this is how it should be, in order
to discipline him and bring him to his senses. 

He (i.e., Ibn al-‘Aqeel) also said: If you want to know the
state of Islam among the people of this time, do not look at them crowding
the doors of the mosques, or how they raise their voices in the Talbiyah.
Rather look at how they interact with the enemies of Islam. Ibn al-Rawandi
and al-Ma’arri (may the curses of Allaah be upon them) spent their lives
writing poetry and prose, and the former said that religion was a myth and
al-Ma’arri said that it was false, disbelieving the book of Allaah, may He
be glorified and exalted. And they lived for years and their graves were
venerated and their books were sold. This indicates that religious
commitment has faded from people’s hearts. Something similar was said by
Shaykh Taqiy al-Deen ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him). 

Al-Khallaal said: Ismaa’eel ibn Ishaaq al-Thaqafi
al-Nisapoori told us that Abu ‘Abd-Allaah was asked about a man who had a
Raafidi neighbour who would greet him with salaam. He said: No, and if he
greets him he should not return the greeting.  

Al-Qaadi Abu’l-Husayn said in al-Tammaam: There is no
difference in the reports concerning the fact that it is obligatory to shun
the people of bid’ah and the evildoers among the Muslims, as you can see.
The apparent meaning is that there is no difference between the one who
openly commits sins and the people of innovation and evildoers. 

He said: No differentiation is made in that regard between a
blood relative and a stranger, if it has to do with the rights of Allaah.
But if it has to do with the rights of other people, such as slandering,
reviling, backbiting, seizing property by force etc, then it depends. If the
person to be shunned and the one who did that deed is one of his relatives,
it is not permissible to shun him. If he is not a relative, then is it
permissible to shun him or not? There are two reports… 

Al-Qaadi said: Ahmad only regarded it as makrooh to shun a
relative with regard to one’s own rights because of the reports about
upholding the ties of kinship. He regarded it as permissible only with
regard to the rights of Allaah, and he disallowed it with regard to the
rights of anyone else, according to the report of al-Marwadhi about the
rights of a stranger. That is because there is no room for compromise with
regard to the rights of Allaah but there is room for compromise when it
comes to the rights of human beings. This is explained by the words of the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “The debt owed to
Allaah is more deserving of being paid off.” 

The views of most of our companions imply that there is no
difference. This is the apparent meaning of the words of Imam Ahmad in some
places, and it is more appropriate. The reports about upholding the ties of
kinship are should be understood in the light of the evidence about
shunning. The rights of human beings may be connected to the rights of
Allaah, and they are based on ease and forgiving, unlike the rights of human
beings.  

The things Muslim should do. We as Muslim should give our first priority to learn quran and do quran reading to seek the right path of Islam and through the quran teaching we can achieve the goal of our life and the deputy to guiding our kids to learn Koran that we should fulfill with perfecting kids quran recitation power and knowledge in Islam and also motivate our children’s to do quran memorization and then guide them to learn holy Quran tafseer  so they could understand the quran in Arabic and the quranic translation and also let or kids to listen quran from top quran reciters to get them inspired. at last I would pray for all my Muslim brothers and sisters that may Allah accept there Dwas and prayers and inspire you with the teachings of our holy prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) so let us join hands and spread the knowledge that every Muslim is born to spread the knowledge of Islam now a day many online quran tutor are available for kids and elders to learn tajweed quran and with exact pronunciation and perfect the quran recitation online with qualified teaching staff  who can guide then with there experience and knowledge and the write teachings to help us in achieving the path of Jannah